to depend on, to rely on

JLPT N5 13 strokes

Words with this Kanji

Usage and Meanings

The character (lài) primarily means "to rely on" or "to depend on" someone or something. It often carries a slightly negative connotation when used to describe someone who habitually depends on others without taking responsibility. Another common meaning is "to shirk responsibility" or "to refuse to pay a debt," which is frequently used in everyday speech.

Common Collocations

  • 别人 (lài biérén): to rely on others, often implying dependence or laziness.
  • (lài zhàng): to refuse to pay a debt, a common phrase in financial or informal contexts.
  • (lài zài): to lie around or stay somewhere unwilling to move, often describing laziness.

Pragmatic Notes

When you use , it often implies a negative judgment about the subject's behavior, such as irresponsibility or laziness. It is not typically used in formal writing but is common in spoken Chinese. Be careful not to confuse with 依赖 (yīlài), which is a more neutral term for "to depend on" without the negative nuance.

Register and Tone

is informal and sometimes colloquial. It can express mild criticism or complaint, so use it carefully in polite or formal situations.

Example Sentences

He always relies on others for help and never does things himself.

Don’t shirk your debt; the money you owe still needs to be paid back.

He is lying on the sofa and refuses to get up.