きまりわるい

きまりわるい

feeling awkward, being ashamed

JLPT N1

Meaning and Usage

The adjective きまりわるい expresses feelings of awkwardness or shame, often in social situations where one feels embarrassed or uncomfortable due to a mistake, a social faux pas, or an unexpected event.

Common Contexts

It is frequently used when someone feels self-conscious after doing something embarrassing, such as falling down, forgetting a promise, or making a mistake in front of others.

Collocations and Patterns

  • きまりわるい気持ちになる: to feel awkward or ashamed
  • きまりわるくて顔が赤くなる: to feel so embarrassed that one's face turns red
  • きまりわるい思いをする: to experience embarrassment or shame

Register and Nuance

This word is somewhat informal and often used in everyday conversation to express mild embarrassment. It is less formal than words like 恥ずかしい but conveys a similar nuance of feeling socially uncomfortable.

Common Mistakes

Learners sometimes confuse きまりわるい with 恥ずかしい. While both relate to embarrassment, きまりわるい often emphasizes the awkwardness or social discomfort aspect, whereas 恥ずかしい can also mean shy or modest. Use きまりわるい when focusing on the awkward or uneasy feeling after a social blunder.

Example Sentences

かれのまえでころんでしまって、きまりわるかった。

I fell in front of him and felt really awkward.

やくそくをわすれてしまって、きまりわるいおもいをした。

I forgot the appointment and felt ashamed.

みんなのまえでまちがえて、きまりわるいきもちになった。

I made a mistake in front of everyone and felt embarrassed.