恋人

こいびと

lover

JLPT N3

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

"恋人" (こいびと) means "lover" or "significant other" in Japanese. It refers to a person with whom one has a romantic relationship, typically implying a boyfriend or girlfriend but can also be used more generally for a romantic partner.

Common Contexts

This word is often used in everyday conversation when talking about romantic relationships, especially in a neutral or slightly formal tone. It is less casual than terms like "彼氏" (boyfriend) or "彼女" (girlfriend), and can be used in written and spoken language.

Collocations and Patterns

  • 恋人と別れる (こいびととわかれる): to break up with a lover
  • 恋人同士 (こいびとどうし): lovers (mutual relationship)
  • 恋人にプレゼントをあげる: to give a present to one's lover

Nuances and Tips

Using "恋人" emphasizes the romantic connection without specifying gender. It is polite and appropriate in various settings, including formal conversations. Learners sometimes confuse "恋人" with "好きな人" (someone you like), but "恋人" implies an established romantic relationship, not just attraction.

Example Sentences

かれはながいあいだこいびととわかれていない。

He hasn't broken up with his lover for a long time.

こいびとどうしはおたがいのきもちをたいせつにするべきだ。

Lovers should cherish each other's feelings.

かのじょはこいびとにサプライズパーティーをけいかくした。

She planned a surprise party for her lover.