出会い

であい

meeting, rendezvous, encounter

JLPT N3

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

"出会い" (であい) primarily means "meeting" or "encounter," often implying a chance or significant meeting with someone or something. It can refer to both planned and unplanned meetings but often carries a nuance of something meaningful or memorable.

Common Contexts

This word is frequently used when talking about meeting people for the first time, especially in contexts like friendships, romantic relationships, or important life events. It can also be used in a broader sense for any kind of encounter, including with opportunities or experiences.

Collocations and Patterns

  • 出会いがある: to have an encounter; used when talking about opportunities to meet people.
  • 出会い系アプリ: dating or matchmaking apps; a common modern usage.
  • 初めての出会い: first meeting; emphasizes the initial encounter.

Register and Nuance

"出会い" is neutral and polite enough for everyday conversation and writing. It is not overly formal but is appropriate in both casual and semi-formal contexts.

Common Learner Tips

Learners sometimes confuse "出会い" with "会う" (to meet). "出会い" emphasizes the encounter itself, often with a nuance of chance or significance, whereas "会う" is simply the act of meeting. Use "出会い" when you want to highlight the meaningfulness or the event of meeting.

Example Sentences

かれとのであいはだいがくじだいでした。

My encounter with him was during my university days.

あたらしいであいがじんせいをゆたかにする。

New encounters enrich life.

であいけいアプリでともだちができました。

I made friends through a dating app.