付合う

つきあう

to associate with, to keep company with, to get on with

JLPT N3

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

The verb 付合う (つきあう) primarily means "to associate with," "to keep company with," or "to get along with." It is commonly used to describe social relationships, including dating, friendships, and casual socializing.

Common Contexts

  1. Romantic relationships: When used in the context of a couple, 付合う means "to date" or "to be in a relationship."
  2. Social or work-related interactions: It can also mean participating in social events or gatherings as part of maintaining relationships, such as work-related drinking parties.
  3. General socializing: Describes the act of getting along or associating with others casually.

Collocations and Patterns

  • 付き合いが長い: having a long relationship or association
  • 仕事の付き合い: socializing related to work obligations
  • 気軽に付き合う: to get along easily or casually with others

Register and Nuance

付合う is a neutral, commonly used verb suitable for both casual and formal contexts depending on the situation. It often implies an ongoing relationship or repeated social interaction rather than a one-time meeting.

Common Mistakes

Learners sometimes confuse 付合う with similar verbs like 会う (to meet) or 遊ぶ (to play/hang out). Remember that 付合う emphasizes the relationship or ongoing association, not just a single encounter.

Example Sentences

かれとはながいあいだつきあっている。

I have been dating him for a long time.

しごとのつきあいでのみかいにさんかした。

I attended a drinking party as part of work socializing.

かのじょはだれとでもきがるにつきあうタイプだ。

She is the type who easily gets along with anyone.