Meaning and Usage
羨む (うらやむ) means "to envy" or "to be jealous of" someone or something. It expresses a feeling of wanting what another person has, whether it is success, possessions, or happiness.
Common Contexts
This verb is often used in everyday conversation when talking about feelings of envy towards others' achievements, belongings, or situations. It can be used both in casual and polite contexts, but the verb itself is neutral in politeness.
Collocations and Patterns
- 羨む＋人 (うらやむ＋ひと): to envy a person
- ～を羨む (～をうらやむ): to envy something (e.g., success, happiness)
- 他人の～を羨む (たにんの～をうらやむ): to envy others' ~
Nuances and Tips
羨む often implies a somewhat negative feeling, as envy can lead to dissatisfaction. It is different from simply admiring someone; 羨む carries a stronger emotional tone of wanting what others have. Learners should avoid confusing 羨む with 好む (このむ, to like) or 憧れる (あこがれる, to admire or long for), which have different nuances.
Common Mistake
A common mistake is to use 羨む when the speaker means to admire or respect someone. Remember, 羨む specifically conveys envy, which can have a negative connotation.