愛想

あいそう

sociability

JLPT N1

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

The word 愛想 (あいそう) refers to a person's friendliness, sociability, or the way they behave warmly and kindly towards others. It often describes how approachable or pleasant someone is in social interactions.

Common Contexts

愛想 is frequently used when talking about customer service, personal relationships, or social behavior. For example, a shop clerk’s 愛想 can influence whether customers feel welcome. It can also describe someone's natural charm or warmth.

Collocations and Patterns

  • 愛想が良い: to be friendly or pleasant
  • 愛想が悪い: to be unfriendly or cold
  • 愛想を振りまく: to spread friendliness, often implying putting on a friendly front

Nuances and Tips

Using 愛想 implies a focus on outward social behavior rather than deep feelings. It can sometimes carry a nuance of superficial friendliness, especially in phrases like 愛想を振りまく. Be careful not to confuse 愛想 with 愛情 (あいじょう), which means deep affection or love.

Register

愛想 is a neutral to slightly formal word, common in both spoken and written Japanese, especially in contexts related to social manners and customer service.

Example Sentences

かのじょはあいそうがよくて、だれとでもすぐになかよくなれる。

She is very friendly and can quickly get along with anyone.

てんいんのあいそうがわるいと、おきゃくさんはまたきたくなくなる。

If the clerk is unfriendly, customers won’t want to come again.

あいそうをふりまくのはにがてだけど、せいじつにせっすることはたいせつだ。

I’m not good at being overly friendly, but it’s important to be sincere.