親しい

したしい

intimate, close (e.g., friend)

JLPT N3

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

The adjective 親しい (したしい) describes a close or intimate relationship, often used for friends, family, or people with whom you share trust and familiarity. It implies emotional closeness rather than just physical proximity.

Common Contexts

You will often hear 親しい used when talking about friendships, trusted colleagues, or family members. It can also be used to describe the nature of a relationship, such as 親しい友達 (close friend) or 親しい間柄 (intimate relationship).

Collocations and Patterns

  • 親しい友達 (close friend): Used to describe a friend you trust and feel comfortable with.
  • 親しい人 (close person): Someone you have a close relationship with.
  • 親しい間柄 (intimate relationship): Describes the closeness between people, often implying a strong bond.

Nuances and Tips

Using 親しい suggests a warm, trusting relationship. It is more emotional than just knowing someone. Avoid confusing 親しい with words that mean physical closeness or acquaintance. For example, 親しい is not used for casual acquaintances or strangers.

Formality

親しい is neutral and can be used in both casual and polite contexts, but it is more common in everyday conversation than in very formal writing.

Example Sentences

かれとはしたしいともだちです。

He is a close friend of mine.

したしいひとにだけひみつをはなします。

I only tell secrets to people I am close with.

したしいあいだがらだから、なんでもはなせる。

Because we are close, we can talk about anything.