ねだる

ねだる

to nag, to demand

JLPT N1

Meaning and Usage

The verb ねだる means to nag or persistently demand something, often used when a child or someone close repeatedly asks for something, usually material like money or toys. It implies a somewhat annoying but often affectionate insistence.

Common Contexts

This word is frequently used in family or informal settings, especially describing children pestering parents. It can also apply to adults in a less formal context when they repeatedly ask for favors or money.

Collocations and Patterns

  • おもちゃをねだる: to nag for a toy
  • お金をねだる: to beg for money
  • 親にねだる: to nag parents

These collocations highlight typical objects and targets of ねだる.

Register and Nuance

ねだる is casual and often carries a slightly negative nuance, implying the demander is somewhat bothersome. It is not used in formal requests or polite speech.

Common Mistakes

Learners sometimes confuse ねだる with 強請る (ゆす・る), which means to extort or blackmail. ねだる is more about persistent asking without threat, while 強請る involves coercion or threats.

Example Sentences

こどもがあたらしいおもちゃをねだってきた。

The child nagged me for a new toy.

かれはなんどもおかねをねだって、ついにかしてもらった。

He repeatedly begged for money and finally got a loan.

こどもがおやにおかしをねだるのはよくあることだ。

It is common for children to nag their parents for sweets.