いたわる

いたわる

to sympathize with, to console, to care for

JLPT N1

Meaning and Usage

The verb "いたわる" means to care for someone with kindness and sympathy, often used when referring to taking care of someone who is sick, tired, or in need of emotional support. It conveys a gentle and considerate attitude.

Common Contexts

This word is frequently used in contexts involving caregiving, such as looking after family members, comforting colleagues, or showing respect and kindness to the elderly.

Collocations and Patterns

  • "疲れをいたわる" (to sympathize with someone's fatigue): used when acknowledging someone's tiredness and offering comfort.
  • "病気の人をいたわる" (to care for a sick person): used in caregiving contexts.
  • "高齢者をいたわる" (to care for the elderly): expresses respect and kindness toward older people.

Register and Nuance

"いたわる" is a polite and somewhat formal verb, often found in written language or respectful speech. It implies a deeper emotional involvement than simply "care" or "help".

Common Mistakes

Learners sometimes confuse "いたわる" with more general verbs like "助ける" (to help) or "看護する" (to nurse). Remember that "いたわる" emphasizes emotional sympathy and gentle care rather than just physical assistance.

Example Sentences

かのじょはびょうきのははおやをやさしくいたわっている。

She is gently caring for her sick mother.

じょうしはぶかのつかれをいたわることばをかけた。

The boss spoke words of sympathy for the subordinate's fatigue.

こうれいしゃをいたわるきもちはたいせつだ。

It is important to have feelings of care for the elderly.