Meaning and Usage
The verb 叱る (しかる) means "to scold" or "to reprimand." It is commonly used when an authority figure, such as a parent or teacher, expresses disapproval of someone's behavior, especially children or students.
Common Contexts
叱る is often used in family and school settings. It implies a corrective intention rather than harsh punishment. The tone can vary from gentle to firm depending on the situation.
Collocations and Patterns
- 叱る + 人 (e.g., 子供を叱る): to scold someone, usually a child
- 叱られる: passive form meaning "to be scolded"
- 叱るときは理由を伝える: emphasizing the importance of explaining reasons when scolding
Register and Nuance
叱る is a neutral polite verb suitable for everyday conversation. It is less formal than 注意する (to warn) but more direct than simply advising. Avoid confusing 叱る with 怒る (to get angry); 叱る focuses on correcting behavior, while 怒る emphasizes the speaker's anger.
Learner Tips
When using 叱る, remember it usually involves a clear reason and a relationship where the speaker has some authority or responsibility. Using it with peers or strangers can sound rude or inappropriate unless in a joking or specific context.