寂しい

さびしい

lonely, lonesome

JLPT N4

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

The adjective 寂しい (さびしい) primarily expresses feelings of loneliness or a sense of emptiness when one is alone or missing companionship. It is often used to describe emotional states rather than physical solitude alone.

Common Contexts

寂しい is frequently used in everyday conversation to express missing someone, feeling isolated, or experiencing a quiet, empty atmosphere. It can describe both emotional loneliness and a quiet or sparse environment.

Collocations and Patterns

  • 寂しい夜 (さびしいよる): "lonely night" — used to describe nights when one feels emotionally alone.
  • 寂しい気持ち (さびしいきもち): "lonely feeling" — emphasizes the emotional state.
  • 寂しいと言う (さびしいという): "to say one is lonely" — common way to express the feeling verbally.

Register and Nuance

寂しい is a neutral, everyday word suitable for casual and polite conversation. It conveys genuine emotional states without strong formality.

Common Mistakes

Learners sometimes confuse 寂しい with 静か (しずか, quiet) because both can describe emptiness or silence. Remember 寂しい focuses on emotional loneliness, while 静か refers to noise level or calmness.

Use 寂しい when talking about feelings of loneliness or missing others, not just quietness.

Example Sentences

ひとりでいるとさびしいとかんじることがあります。

Sometimes I feel lonely when I am alone.

さびしいよるはともだちにでんわをかけます。

On lonely nights, I call my friends.

かれはひっこしてからさびしいといっています。

He says he feels lonely since he moved.