悩み

なやみ

trouble(s), worry, distress

JLPT N1

Character Breakdown

Understanding 悩み (なやみ)

悩み refers to troubles, worries, or distress that someone experiences. It often implies a mental or emotional struggle rather than physical pain. This word is commonly used in everyday conversation when discussing personal problems or concerns.

Usage and Nuance

When someone uses 悩み, they usually talk about something that causes them anxiety or uncertainty. It can be about relationships, work, studies, or life decisions. The word carries a somewhat serious tone but is natural in both casual and polite contexts.

Common Collocations

  • 悩みを話す (なやみをはなす): to talk about one's worries — often used when seeking advice or comfort.
  • 悩みがある (なやみがある): to have worries — a common expression to indicate someone is troubled.
  • 悩みを解決する (なやみをかいけつする): to solve or resolve worries — used when discussing solutions.

Register and Politeness

悩み is neutral and can be used in both formal and informal situations. However, when speaking politely, it is often combined with polite verbs or expressions.

Common Learner Mistake

Learners sometimes confuse 悩み with 痛み (いたみ), which means physical pain. Remember, 悩み is about mental or emotional troubles, not physical sensations.

Example Sentences

かのじょはしょうらいのしごとのことでなやんでいる。

She is worried about her future job.

なやみをだれかにはなすと、きもちがらくになることがある。

Sometimes talking about your worries to someone makes you feel better.

がくせいじだいのなやみはおとなになってもわすれられないことがおおい。

Worries from student days are often unforgettable even after becoming an adult.