こい

love, tender passion

JLPT N3

Character Breakdown

Meaning and Usage

The word 恋 (こい) primarily refers to romantic love or tender passion, often implying emotional or affectionate feelings toward someone. It is commonly used in contexts involving romantic relationships or feelings of attraction.

Common Collocations

  • 恋をする (こいをする): to fall in love
  • 初恋 (はつこい): first love
  • 恋人 (こいびと): lover, boyfriend/girlfriend
  • 恋の歌 (こいのうた): love song

Usage Notes

恋 is often contrasted with 愛 (あい), which can imply a deeper or more enduring love. 恋 tends to emphasize the emotional, passionate, or sometimes fleeting aspect of love. It is frequently used in everyday conversation, literature, and media when discussing feelings of romantic attraction.

Common Mistakes

Learners sometimes confuse 恋 with 愛. Remember that 恋 focuses more on the feeling of being in love or infatuation, while 愛 is broader and can include familial or unconditional love. Using 恋 in formal or serious contexts might sound less appropriate than 愛.

Register

恋 is neutral and commonly used in casual and literary contexts. It is not overly formal but is suitable for most conversations about romantic feelings.

Example Sentences

かれははじめてのこいにむねをときめかせている。

He is thrilled by his first love.

こいはときにひとをつよくもよわくもする。

Love can sometimes make a person strong or weak.

かのじょはこいのうたをよくうたう。

She often sings love songs.